公民说理与逻辑

今天通过reader看文章的时候,看到这么一篇文章《公民课第一堂:学会讲道理》,幸运的上了这一堂课,虽然我现在真的很讨厌上课,但这节课我觉得才是切合自己需要的课程。

我也是被洗脑了N年的人,说话没有逻辑,当希望自己的观点被证明是正确或者具有巨大效力的时候,不自觉就会编造事实,然后再加一部分来源不明的假大空的话,这种恶习在几个月前也认识到了,但苦于缺少了讲道理和逻辑思维这一堂课,虽然很自责,收效却很微小,等到和别人说话的时候只能偶尔想起来而已。希望的是,自己能够通过这个公民教育,慢慢的改掉这些恶习,真正的做一个顶天立地的人,而不是一个只会嚷嚷着说些不合逻辑、害人害己的骗子。

其中有个问题发表下自己的看法:为什么说话要有逻辑、区分事实和看法,还事实以真正面目呢?本人的看法是:人与人交往不是一次两次就不再见面了的,再没有心眼的人也会慢慢明白和他说话的人对他说的是真话还是假话,因为没有不透风的墙和不被揭露的真相,同时人与人之间会因为某种微妙的方法而感受到对方的真诚与善意,这种方法我无法给予证明,但却在我却深信,而且在我的生活中屡被证明。

于是现在需要做的是,注意自己的言行,要合理,这需要定力的培养,因为人在说话的前是很难知道自己的话到底正不正确的,除非有高度的定力与思维力,而这种定力和思维力是可以通过宗教信仰和冥想或者其他的东西来锻炼的。然后就是多多培养逻辑思维,多多查找自己的问题,比如言行一致,礼貌待人等基本谈话礼仪,而这些都是我所欠缺的。

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施食与功德

清静布施对学佛修行来说是很重要的。一方面我们在修行的时候要多为众生做善事,积累修行的福德资粮,另一方面又要保持清静心态,抛弃功德观念。刚开始做一件对众生有益的事情的时候,比如施食,总会想到自己又积累了好多功德。我对此的看法是:功德观念就如妄念一样是赶不走的,与其徒增烦恼,不如就由它去吧,时间久了,这种观念自会减少,而且还会发现,施食的过程,给自己增长了不少善心,同时通过自己的行为使许多众生远离了痛苦,让自己非常欣喜,也会感谢众生,让自己有了培养善根,洗涤心灵的机会,也就是那句话,没有众生,哪里会有佛呢?

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认识自己与自制力

做人比较难的地方之一就是不能认清自己了。不知道有多少人敢于说自己真正的认识自己,包括自己的控制力、兴趣爱好、品行程度,不说全部认识,至少大概也许就很少人能够做到,今天不谈别的,仅谈谈自制力。

我算不上一个好学生,因为我上课基本就不听课,因为我觉得这些课对于现在的我没有太大用处,即使它们在未来可能起到很大的作用或者扩展视野的作用,可是现在我依然没有动力去学习。而且我也知道,即使我自己现在强迫自己去学习,很快的也也会把它们忘掉,或者半途而废。从小到大,我们听到最多的也让我们最灰心的就是我们学习不努力,别人都考那么好,进度那么快,而我们却做不到。我以前也一直这么认为并常常自责--我怎么这么不争气呀!慢慢的,从好学生变成坏学生,之后再发展自己的兴趣,通过兴趣提升了公用的能力与技能之后,我才发现,那些灰心之语只是最原始最直接表达感情的最没有理性的话语而已,因为说这些话的人,不管是老师还是父母,他们都没有了解到我们在学校真正干什么,我们的学习痛苦吗,学习的效率高吗。于是真正受伤的仍然是我们自己,连带的,这些关心我们却用错方法的人也一起受伤。源于什么,兴趣与自制力的不协调。

在做一件知道对自己特别有好处或者是有长远利益的事情的时候,但我们在感情上并不想去做的时候,我们能走多远?当你真正认识自己的自制力的时候,你可以去走一段,然后再通过兴趣的培养、成功或者利益的刺激来继续激励自己再多走一段,这样的路,不会很痛苦的,但最好的,我觉得,仍然是发挥自己所擅长的,感兴趣的,即使中间也有辛酸与寂寞,但都只是小插曲,最终仍会走上轨道的。

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英语 Presentation:潜意识

英语课有一个需要做的题目是由自我介绍展开,然后做一个 Presentation,今天是我的 showtime,以下是我讲稿的内容,感觉表现还可以,只是5分钟的时间没有把潜意识说明白。

Subconscious Mind (潜意)

Today we are talking about subconscious mind. It’s the treasure in our mind which we have not paid close attention to.

First of all, I will introduce myself simply and then explain why this topic was selected. My name is GaoXiang. Twenty-five years old. I am earnest sometimes and indoorsy because I like computer and programming. Computer is a large part of my life. One year ago, I have become a Buddhist. A lot of people have asked for the reason. I told them that just because I had been on to impermanence of life, and there is no thing now we pay close attention to can follow us forever. Afterwards, I have read some sutras and other books about human mind. Thanks for Buddha and these authors of the books, my life have taken place a great change. So today I will introduce subconscious mind simply to you and hope that everyone can pay great attention to your heart and soul.

What and where is subconscious? How to find it?

Subconscious is not mysterious. It always accompanies you and expresses your emotions in deep heart. (You can find it in your heart easily when you go quiet.) And your living situation is the reflection of subconscious mind.

Subconscious has five characters:

  • Powerful beyond your imagination.

  • Easily infected by emotions.

  • Be not making a distinction between right and wrong. That is, subconscious believes everything you tell to him or her.

  • Easily provoked by images.

  • Need to be frequently provoked.

How subconscious mind works?

Subconscious reflect your real desire. That is, when you really desire health, wealth and so on, subconscious will bring them to you. Of course, the bad things will also come if you really need it.

For example, if you suggest to your subconscious prior to sleep, “Hi, guy, I want to get up at 6 A.M.,” it will awaken you at that exact time.

The following I will explain how subconscious mind works.

First, it gets what you really desire indiscriminately, no matter the thing is positive or negative.

It has infinite power and wisdom. To realize your expectations, it will use all the experience and any knowledge it knows; and then make good use of all the natural laws to solve the problem.

There is a question that still needs us to solve. Why someone who has a strong desire to be wealthy is still poor? The question is very important and wondering. First, he or she likes money but is jealous of the rich. Second, he or she has never believed himself or herself to be rich.

So what?

It is useful and powerful if you make good use of subconscious mind. Think good and good follows. Think evil and evil follows. you are what you think all day long. But what and how to do it?

The most important is always imagining the end desired and feeling its reality.

The further way is:

First, relax your body; take a deep breathe; smiling.

Second, imagine some warm scenes and pay attention to them.

Third, repeat the word you dream of quietly and feel its reality.

You can do it every day and you will find it is very useful.

Suggestions

Besides above steps, I will give some suggestions which maybe make your life more significant.

  • Please be thankful and contented. Never-ending hominine desires will cause never-ending pain because gets means lost.

  • Jealousy is stumbling blocks to the flow of wealth.

  • Rejoice in the prosperity of others.

  • Grab things you can always grab.

  • Have a healthy belief.

Expand Reading

If you are interested in researching human mind, here are some books I recommend.

  • The Other Side and Back. Sylvia Browne.  (《灵魂之旅》苏菲亚•布朗)
  • Past Lives, Future Healing. Sylvia Browne.  (《细胞记忆》苏菲亚•布朗)
  • Law of Attraction  (吸引力法则)
  • 《遇见未知的自己》《遇见心想事成的自己》《活出全新的自己》   张德芬
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软件与硬件带来的困惑

一直以来对捅咕电脑都有一种原始的兴趣,于是慢慢的技术也有了些进步,能帮身边的人解决一些电脑方面的难题,但近来却越来越发现一个问题,让我很是难受。

从学习电脑开始,一直关心的都是操作系统和软件,之后开始学习编程,一直到现在,中间虽然看过一些装机方面的东西,但大都是随便一看,只为自己装机或者有人要求能帮他参考参考的。但是我发现我现在已经被人认为是全能的了,不管是在软件的任何方面甚至延伸到了硬件方面,只要大家有问题,不管我会不会,他们都会认为我会,实际上,我仍然是一只菜鸟而已。最可怕的不是别人,竟然是我自己,我默认了,而且直到今天也发现,发现的原因源于朋友又要买笔记本了,让我参考参考,之后我才发现,我只是在不同的硬件网站之间转悠,对CPU了,显卡了,了解的很少,我根本看不出来如何搭配才好,即使知道也很少,无语了,人最怕的是没有自知之明,还好不太晚,可是以后遇到这种情况怎么办呢,哎,好办,说实话呗—我只能参考参考,我懂的也不多!

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